I had a chance for a short private call with the CEO of my new company as reward for winning a internal competition recently. As I was reall...

I think we need to find peace with the fact that we are not special at all - not the richest, not the strongest, not the fastest, not anyway...

Just seen this comic on 9gag recently. This brought back so much memories, and the sorrow which came along with it. I remember the...

Things have been crazily hectic since I started on this new role. Once in a while, I'd start to wonder whether this has been a good move...

There is no meaning in life, you are the one who chooses what you want and give it meaning. I have chosen family; it will always be at my ...

A relationship often begin because of love. But what happens when love runs out? It's not always sunshine and roses in a relationship, ...

One more time: do not judge, do not assume, do not over think. It is not what actually happens which brings 2 person apart, it's our pe...

The places you've been to, the food that you've ate, the things that you've done, the habits developed when you were together - ...

I first began my weight loss journey around June of 2015. I was 96KG. The milestone of 90KG was achieved on 28th September 2015. That wa...

Let go of your poisonous attitude Let go of your jealousy Let go of your anger Let go of your cynicism The only person hurting you is yo...

《機場之歌~在旅行的路上》 在旅行的路上 有些事我們慢慢講 有個熱情的地方 名字叫 台灣 我們將腳步放慢 聊著天在路上 你行李裝滿 遠赴他鄉的夢想 在旅行的路上 有些事我們慢慢講 有個熱情的地方 名字叫 台灣 我用思念在醞釀 牢記你的模樣 揮揮手再見 祝你 旅途平安 The ...

The definition of the word says: the quality of being dedicated or committed to a task or purpose. Dedication and commitment is a controve...

Amongst man who are successful and those who are less so, one factor stands out clear in contrast of the two: dedication. There is no secr...

That means that your objectives are clear, and there can only be one result: success. A short yet powerful statement which shows the resolv...

One of the side effect of trusting people is the possibility of mismatched expectations. Be it intentional or unintentional, people do not...

The topic of pre-sales vs sales vs be-your-own-boss came up again, this time with interesting insights, and I have sort of reached a conclus...

I don't know when did you stop trusting me I don't know when did you stop being proud of me I don't know when did you stop loo...

When I thought I was thinking for our future, she thought I was thinking for myself. Why do I count every cent? Why do I plan for housing ...

Remember, anger and vengeance hurts only yourself. The target do not understand or feel what you are feeling.

If certain things is considered wrong when done by you, but okay for others to do it, you can only suck thumb.

You can tell much by observing a person's behavior and micro expressions. Beyond the branded façade, it is easy to tell if a person trul...

Do not respond in kind, always be the better person. Violence begets violence, immaturity begets immaturity. In a fight, be the gracious ...

Knowing and understanding is different. People are different and hence think and behave differently. You may have said some things to the...

I am the best. Live life with the mindset that you are the best. Not because of self arrogance that you think that you are the best, and...

Despite everything that I say, I am actually a warrior, a fighter; I will always stand and fight. Laziness and procrastination do kick in ...

Making a list for things to note for office survival. 有人就有政治。Politics is inherent with men, the moment you are in a group of people, you h...

The right spouse should: Appreciate you for who you are Make you more confident and feel good about yourself Make you a better person ...

Always plan forward for the future. But remember to live in the moment.

If you take life too seriously, you will only end up hurting yourself when things are not up to your expectations. You can only get what li...

It doesn't matter what exactly you will achieve in the end. Things are not always in you favor. If times are bad and you didn't ac...

不要想太多。There is no need to analyse and classify every single thing. Poking and probing things "just for the sake of discussion" is ...

“If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let i...

In love, we need to work together, with each other. But sometimes, due to small little things which are magnified by our selfish ego, couple...

Often in life, we like to show people things that we do, things that we achieve, things that we learn. Growing up is when you realize ther...

Don't take things personally, an advise which we commonly hear, not difficult to practice. The matter of fact is, it is easy to take t...

When someone do something stupid or selfish, it is normal to adopt a 你不仁我不義 stance and respond with equal unpleasantness. However, you may b...

If you think you know something, don't talk about it. Play along until you get the full answer. It is better to know and have others ...

There's a difference between having an opinion and rubbing your dick in others' face. 太魯莽，太草率。 Too rush, too quick to judge. Th...

Still clearing up my reputation from the mood swing I had at work. Took a valuable lesson on information management. And strangely, it felt ...

Been away from work recently. 2 weeks of sort-of break allowed me to quieten down and put my work life into perspective. Silence is gol...

Hi Alwina, If you are still reading my blog, you might have known that I have found someone. While attempting to put away the cards and ...

It gives you insights to the original intent, allowing you to stay true to your direction and see any deviation from your direction. It...

Things happen, good or bad. Sometimes for a reason, sometimes for no reason at all. It's how you decide to react to it that determines i...

I've been behaving like an idiot, a spoiled kid at work. Very unprofessional, jeopardizing my own progress. Remember, the really p...

Think you're smart? Think you're popular? Think going around shooting your mouth off, being a sarcastic smart aleck is cool? You ...

事情往往沒有我想的那麽複雜。所有的問題都是自己想出來的。 Assuming the worst possible scenario is the weakest form of self defense. You try to prepare yourself for the...

以平常心去應對生命中的每一個低潮。 人生本來就是沒有意義的。 既然沒有意義，又何處來的憂愁 ? 既然已經決定了，再在意就是不對。 而且結果其實已經早就猜到了。 別再想了。

我okay的，我永遠衹是個可有可無的配角，我習慣的做著可有可無的配角。

Here's what challenging yourself is about: whenever you start to think that something cannot be done, throw yourself into the other side...

I realized why I was spending recklessly. I was spending like I have that kind of paycheck before it come. I did not manage my expectatio...

Declined a job job offer because it didn't meet my 20% increment. Reasons are clear and correct, and the job does have a lot of risks in...

Do not assume that other's decision would be the worst case scenario. It's just a weak way of managing your expectations so that yo...

Made record today, for the first time in like 6 years, my weight is 90.0 KG. Persistance, perseverance, conviction. Active lifestyle has...

Ego is a weakness. The need of self justification stems from insecurity. You will find peace if you can truly let go of your ego.

Some times you really should be asking why not instead of why. If you ask why, it would be difficult to find reasons to do what you are su...

I have always been an impatient person. I am objective oriented and have always been able to see what is there at the end of the line. ...

Sir Thomas Edison, you are a genius. The answer was there all along, summarized in a concise line. To me, this is the most accurate descri...

天地間任我展翅高飛 雖説那是天真的預言 風中揮舞狂亂的雙手 寫下燦爛的詩篇 不管有多麽疲倦 潮來潮往世界多變遷 迎接光輝嵗月 爲它一生奉獻

I used to feed on negativity. But little did I know, it was feeding on me, and it consumed me from the inside. Now I know that it is not z...

Why do you feel sad? Did something not go your way? Did you expect it to go your way? Did you not expect that the result would be a poss...

Pain is good, pain is a sign that your body is reacting to the conditions. Be it psychological or physical, pain is your body bitching abo...

Why do people buy the lottery? Do they really expect to win with such a slim chance? No. It's because if they don't buy, the chan...

Set your goals, don't stop until you have achieved them. I will stop at nothing until I achieved my goals. Manage your time, your wo...

There are a million ways that things can fail. The only way that you can succeed is through determination, conviction, and commitment.

I'm like a cockroach. You can keep trying to bring me down, but I will keep coming back up.

Decide what you want to do, then find means to do it. Decide what you want to have, then find ways to have it. If you keep thinking about...

But why would you want to change the world? I say fuck the world, care about yourself.

Once in a while, you meet people who have been through so much more than you that you start reflecting on your own life. Looking at what o...

If you used your perspective to judge others' lives, it would not make sense to them. Same logic for the vice versa. That's why i...

Who am I to change the world if I cannot even help myself? Changes start with you.

My motivation? I am ridiculously good, if I can't do it, no one else can.

How do you kill a man who is already dead inside? My strength does not come from mindless optimism or motivation; my strength comes from t...

Nobody understands you, but it's not their fault, neither is it yours. Different people just have different perspective. Period. I ca...

What you're missing isn't her. It's the companionship of having someone to hold.

Don't clash ego with someone you cannot win. Smart alec responses can have disastrous consequences.

People don't like it when you point out that they are stupid. People don't like to hear the truth, they like to hear what they want...

I don't know what I'm doing, I do because I can. I'm hoping that my life would make sense of itself.

Right or wrong doesn't matter. Best Practice doesn't matter. "In the long run" doesn't matter. Ignore the underlying...

So much misery, that dying would actually be a blessing to me. But how do I drop off this load of misery? Could my problems be self-create...

Remember that sarcasm never helps. Don't win a battle just to soothe your ego, and make everything in the future difficult. Even in th...

It's common to want to feel good about yourself. Unfortunately, the way to do it may not always be an honorable one. Don't put oth...

There is always 2 sides (or more) to things. As a natural skeptic, it has always been easy to point out problems, dangers, risks to anything...

Feeling depressed? Feeling low? Stay focused, remind yourself that this is not a race against others. If you race against others, you are bo...

I've been called many things: genius, promising young man, smart and fast learner, one who rises up to any challenge. The point is, I ha...

Instead, choose the kind of life you want to lead, and fight for the paycheck to sustain it.

Try: a three letter word which is also probably the biggest and most important. If you try, you stand a chance; if you don't the chance ...

每當夜深人靜時，心裏又湧起了莫名的傷。心聲有誰聽，心痛有誰懂？ Everyone sees me as the happy-go-lucky guy – always smiling, laughing, and joking.  心中的無奈有誰知？ And there...

There are only 2 kinds of reaction when you get into a tough situation: give up, or fight harder. I guess it's time I realize that I h...

Putting faith in people is the first and deepest mistake that you would ever make - this idea stems from the countless disappointments I hav...

Yes, we can still be friends.

Always identify if your problems are temporary. If they are temporary, manage it, and do not let it swing your direction which will affect y...

Well I guess she should have stopped reading this blog after the harsh meetup we had the last time, it’s time to do a quick summary of why ...

Knowing the answer and accepting the consequences of the answer are entirely separate issues. The answer, which is derived from most optim...

I don't understand love at all. If it was painful to be together, why does it hurt so much when we are finally apart? Why must two h...

Live through the pain, remember that this is better for the both of you. 長痛不如短痛。 Yes, the bear and other things brings much sadness. At...

Understanding that life is meaningless is one thing, but living like you don't care is another. Understanding something doesn't me...