One more time: do not judge, do not assume, do not over think.
It is not what actually happens which brings 2 person apart, it's our perspective of it which pushes each other away.
This time, I should truly learn to not second guess people's motives, to not jump to conclusions about people's actions.
Putting your heart in others' hands is a truly dangerous thing to do. It's an act of trust initially, but can lead to defensiveness in the end. If you build a wall around it at the slightest sign of hurt, it is going to be an emotional barrier which is really hard to cross.
I've been hurt before, but that was the past. I should not judge others based on the negativity I have been through, it is not fair to them.
Treat people with fairness, let them into your life.
When in doubt, ask - don't assume.
Treat each other with honesty; remove the guessing between you and your partner.
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