I have finally realized my pain.
I refuse to change, unless it is something I deem to be what I like.
But that does not usually align to what I want. Meaning: I may actually have to change to something else in order to achieve what I want.
I finally understand that between what I want to do and what I want, I have to choose one.
Since the choice is made, I have to go through the 5 stages of acceptance to accept my choice.
If I can't accept that, only pain and agony ensue.
There is hardly a choice whereby you don't need to sacrifice one thing for another.
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