Sarcasm is not required

Do not says things at the spur of a moment just to soothe your ego. Smart remarks never help in any situations, and it may bring trouble to yourself. Keep your comments to yourself. Smile, nod, agree, and go back to whatever you intended to do.

Don't look back

What has happened cannot be changed.
There is no point in looking back and regret.
Learn from lessons of the past and put your new wisdom to good use.

A little less pessimism, a little less arrogance, a little more perspective

Sometimes when you become too focus on yourself, your perspective gets narrow and you lose sight of the big picture, you tend to get pessimistic and you take things personal.

Sometimes, there are more to things, there are are more to people.

If you only care about showing yourself and winning others, you are bound to lose. Because you are fighting the wrong enemy.

Your enemy is your arrogance, your ego. Overcome that and find productive ways to work with your brethren.

Win as a team, it's a win for everybody.

The System

The system will never be fair - if you wait for the system to be fair to you, it will never happen.

However, you can make things fair for yourself.


You can think of dozens of ways to change the system, but no matter how you change it, it will never be fair.

However, you can bypass the system and make things fair for yourself.

Don't give up

What that may be hurting you may actually be a temporary condition.
Don't give up a long term direction just to alleviate a temporary condition.

Growing up

I realized that I don't really want to grow up.
I think nobody wants that, once they know what it really means to be growing up.